Hello! This is Noel Kozuki of spiritual writer.
They’re using “parent face” and “lover face” by scene. We can learn from them what should we do to stay sexy after we got married or give birth.
Both of Bob and Heren call each other “Mama” and “Papa” in front of their children.
In the movie of “Mr.Incredible 2”, Bob said Dash “I said don’t call your Mother!”
But on the other hand, when Bob and Heren talked before they sleep, they called each other their first name.
Perhaps, these scene are usual event in days of abroad.
But in same time, it is difficult to do same thing in Japan maybe.
And I think that this a few difference creates the great difference to couple relationships.
It is said that sexless marriage is increasing.
There are some reason but the biggest reason is said “It is because, after give birth, mother minds are change and she feels so hard to become sexy mood.”
I would like to add here one more reason.
That is “Couples must add Parent role in their position. “
This needs might to create to them a new flame.
By the children growth, couples starts calling themselves “Mama” or “Papa”.
And they might to start calling that way even they’re spending time only each other!
In Japan, many of parents live like that. It is might natural they can’t feel each other sexy.
Moreover, they growed watching their parents lived in same way so they can’t come up with another way!
The attitude like that might be restrict lover’s sight.
It may be difficult to feel sexy from see your lover through your children.
I think this is one of the reason of sexlessness.
If we call our lover like Bob and Heren, we might be get back sexy sight and gain parent sight in same time.
Thank you for your reading!
I wish you all the best!